FEMALE
GENITAL MUTILATION.
Joseph Parmuat narrated to Resian and Taiyo how the
practice was started by women to resist the evil Ilarinkoi, Taiyo and Resian
are determined to fight it. Resian is very much against
this retrogressive practice. She says, “I would rather live in the noisiest
place on earth, than live anywhere near a vagabond who would accost me…with the
intention of mutilating my sexuality”. She later on manages to escape the brutal
practice however her Sister Taiyo barely makes it having been forcibly cut. F.G.M is so highly regarded in Nasila that no girl would get
married before getting circumcised.
EARLY
MARRIAGE AND FORCED MARRIAGE
Resian and Taiyo
condemn the practice especially of booking unborn baby girls. This denies women
a chance to choose their marriage partners based on love but not what is
dictated upon them by their parents. For Instance, Resian
is optimistic and wishes to enroll at Egerton University However; her father
organizes for her to marry Oloisudori behind her back. She goes
through a lot of challenges in order to overcome this plan. When she escapes
from Oloisudori’s net, she is subjected to another forced marriage to Olarinkoi
but she also escapes it. Taiyo also forcefully undergoes FGM to prepare her as
a wife.
MALE
CHAUVINISM
It is an old-fashioned
tradition that is still embraced by individuals such as Ole Kaelo, Oloisudori.
Men believe they are superior in terms of ability, intelligence.
Ole Kaelo hopes that his second born would be a boy, who
would carry his name to the next generation but instead, he gets a girl that he
lives to hate. Women also lack any say in the matters affecting them for
example Mama Milanoi. She is in a dilemma
to either save her marriage or daughters and ends up choosing her marriage. She
cannot stand up against her husband, Ole Kaelo. Resian is pissed off when Yeiyo
Botorr supports men saying that she should not talk ill of men. Taiyo and
Resian are also assaulted by men (Lante, Ntara, Olarinkoi...) in the community
for they are considered insignificant.
MARRIAGE
FROM THE SAME CLAN
Taiyo is not happy
because she cannot be in a relationship with Joseph Permuat because they belong
to the same clan. Though they aren’t related. According to Nasila culture, if
such people married, there would be untold consequences. Taiyo finds this as a “gross unfairness of
the outdated culture”. Joseph fears
going against that tradition because he would be reprimanded and punished for
doing such a thing. According to the
book such a person would be forced to pay cattle as compensation and undergo a
demeaning cleansing ceremony as well as a public rebuke. Taiyo observes that
such practices should have been scrapped.
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